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Young people are doing better than you think BY MELINDA WENNER MOYER I T WAS DECEMBER 2025, AND KATIE TOBIN’S KIDS WERE FIGHTING AGAIN. This time it was because her six-year-old, Tori, wasn’t sharing toys with her little sister, Sunny. Sunny retaliated as three-year-olds often do; she hit Tori in a fit of anger. Then, of course, Tori started crying. Tobin handled the situation as she always does: by validating her kids’ feelings, helping them see each other’s perspectives and emphasizing limits. She brought Sunny onto her lap and explained that she knew Sunny was frustrated but that it wasn’t okay to hit because hitting hurts. She also tried to help Tori understand why Sunny had hit her. …
摘自《科学美国人》(Scientific American)第334卷 第4期 · 2026年4月刊,Melinda Wenner Moyer。仅引用开头一小段供了解文章,版权归原刊所有,全文请阅读原刊。