浪漫萧条：为什么年轻人越来越难找到爱情

Why are so few young people finding love? By Faith Hill Illustrations by Kimberly Elliott About 90 seconds into a three-minute hug with a stranger, I began to think that dying alone might not be so bad after all. I’d come to a candlelit loft in Manhattan for a “mindful singles event” called The Feels, which was designed to be the opposite of the disembodied experience of dating apps. Participants, phones tucked away, paired up and attempted a series of “somatic awareness” exercises, including staring into each other’s eyes, hugging, and holding a hand over each other’s heart. We’d been warned that discomfort is part of the process. …